MARTIN LUTHER KING JR: 5 POINTS OF LEADERSHIP

From the Investor's Business Daily, January 20, 2015.

This weekend's story in the Investor's Business Daily was apropos about Martin Luther King Jr., whose name day we will all celebrate on Monday.  

Yes, we know he turned a radical tide for everyone.  So, the paper had a unique perspective about Dr. King because he provided many lessons about leadership that have broad applicability.  They bear repeating: 

1. Set goals and make a detailed plan of action to reach them.  We've all heard this one.  What I didn't know about Dr. King was that he skipped two grades because he made a detailed plan of how to get to College faster. 

2. Understand your adversary's point of view.  In studying the great leaders, Dr. King's signature was to find common ground and work together peacefully. 

3. Conduct a postmortem analysis of every action to learn from mistakes.  I read that Dr. King worked in an atmosphere of relentless adversity -- almost like a tsunami of negativity. Wow. 

4. Understand your adversary's point of view. Very difficult to do.  In constant transformation, Dr. King understood: "What does it profit a man to be able to eat an an integrated lunch counter if he doesn't earn enough money to buy a hamburger and a cup of coffee."

5. Practice what you preach. "I would like to live a long life ... But I'm not concerned about that now. I just want to do God's will. And he's allowed me to go up to the mountain...and I've seen the promised land. I may not get there with you. But ... we, as a people, will get to the promised land." 

The next day, after uttering those words, Dr. King was killed on the balcony of his hotel. Dead a 39.  What a testimony he left us. RIP Dr. King. Let's all be leaders if only for a day.

COLORFUL VERA BRADLEY DUFFEL SIGNALS GREAT START TO 2015

A cool, colorful bag is something that I wouldn't buy for myself.  Yet, there is something so

Colorful duffle adds fun to trip.

charming in traveling with the paisley deisgn on this Vera Bradley duffel bag.  It's trendy. It's a wonderful item to herald the promise of a fruitful and productive trip. 

Thoughtful and caring, my sister-in-law gave me  this luggage for Christmas. She knows that I would never buy something like this for myself.  Typically, I use nondescript dark suitcases. The ones that the cats sit on when I work in the basement 

 But this bag is fun.  It's great for this particularly long weekend as I am attending the Chicago Travel Show at the Donald Stephens Convention Center.  Excited is not even the word! Beyond pumped.  The bag displays the excitement of the trip. 

The bag is loaded with slacks, socks, hair care products and of course...books.  It's amazing what's in the bag. Or rather, what can fit in it.

Standing in an 8'x10' booth for two straight days is no easy feat.  The duffel has Sketchair black shoes. Comfy and supportive.  Perfect for trade shows.  Sketchers Level 3 slippers are also in there along with an off-the-beaten shoe path find of fabric and patent leather inch high heels for a just in case evening dressup. 

Gloves, ear muffs and a scarf rest inside until I pull them out for the walk along Lake Michigan. As winter is my favorite season, the cold is invigorating. The view intoxicating.

A big ole honkin' notebook, USA Today and markers are also waiting to be used.  

The first trip of the year! The bag adds to the uniqueness.  Welcome 2015. 

 

FRIDA: The Musical Life of the Wife of Muralist Diego Rivera

Frida at lunch

Frida Kahlo is probably one of the most misunderstood women artists even today  She was always in the shadow of her famous husband, Diego Rivera, whose mural decorates the Detroit Institute of Arts. Often she was referred to as Diego's wife. What artist wants to be known as "just his wife?" She didn't like it one iota. 

They had a troublesome marriage, argued frequently and each had numerous affairs. Still, she admired Diego's artistic style and he encouraged her painting and only gave advice when asked. They divorced and remarried. Neither of the unions were pleasant in their love-hate relationship. They were a source of inspiration and heartache to each other.

Famous or not, I would not want to be a guest in their house. 

First for the raucous arguments. 
Second, either of them would often have liaisons with their guests. For example, Leon Trotsky and his wife traveled from Norway to Mexico in order to take up a short residence in their home. Well, guess what, everyone got to know each other a little too well. 

Still, Frida was definitely all woman. For instance, she changed her birth date to correspond to the year of the Mexican Revolution of 1910. So she went up three years, while most of us try to dial down the age. 

Both of the Rivera's had large personalities in their own right.  Of course, Diego was the charmer, larger and louder of the two. He had no qualms about calling everything he did art including a sketch on newspaper with a mustard stain, which he made in Detroit. Who can resist a Detroit Coney Dog? Not even he. 

Frida's father was German and her mother was Amerincan Indian and Spanish. One of the most prominent features that Frida showed us in her paintings was her famous joined eyebrows, known as the uni-brow and her rather dark mustache, which she proudly showed. She was Indian more than anything else and set her own style.

Mexico of course, revers her like any country would it's own artist mainlly because she shows the indigenous culture with bold, bright colors. You can read the biography of this fabulously gifted lady because it never ceases to amaze.  However, her life has been turned into a musical opera as a rousing production of  Frida Kahlo. Rightly so. 

It starts off at age 18 when Frida was badly injured in a traffic accident, which necessitated many medical procedures. Her recovery in isolation, as well as a lifetime in physical pain, profoundly influenced her paintings -- some of the most compelling of the 20th century

The musical celebrates Kahlo's vivacious spirit, talent, and fragility, with splashes of music as colorful as her artwork.  

I borrowed from Frida in taking things to the limit with my trip to the show during early spring in March.  At lunch, an actress takes it a step further so you'll swoon with our loon! Prior to the performance, lunch is planned at Los Galanes where tour attendees will be treated to another "show" about Frida... one that is feisty & hilarious when "Frida" will engage crowds in her life as an artist.  She will "explain" a couple of her art works in a very brazen but comical manner  -- what made them good and bad all while applying "Love That Red" lipstick.  She''ll reveal her lurid & deepest secrets. Her affairs of the heart. Dishing the dirt on Diego. Even her food choices. No plate is safe.

In her 40s when she died, this is probably the ideal way to learn more about Frida Rivera. After this you may want to dive headlong into her journals which makes 40 Shades of Grey look like Pollyanna. 

WE'RE AT THE CHICAGO TRAVEL SHOW JAN. 17-18: COME SEE US

Rose Szwed w/the big hat

Who doesn't love to travel? Whether it's a one-day getaway or a luxurious trip to some distant continent. It's all about the joy of escaping the grind, relaxing and betting back in touch with yourself. 

 

 

 To keep tabs on the travel industry, I decided to "man the booth" while attending the Chicago Travel & Adventure Show. As the leading travel event in the Midwest, this is a-one stop shopping marketplace where consumers and the trade will find hundreds of travel providers offering their unique vacation options and travel information.

It all takes place at the Donald Stephens Convention Center, Rosemont, the Chicago suburb.

Look for YT in booth #801 - in the Michigan section of the show. For me, it's all about getting inspired...connecting... and meeting with destination experts in between manning the booth (in this case, "girling" it) and doing all of the exciting things that this outstanding show has to offer.

It's like walking through a living travel guide instead of searching the web. After all, travel is the lifeblood of my business whether it's day trips or bus tours. I figure 'why ot mingle with the big guns' and see how they do it.

Besides, the Chicago Travel & Adventure Show is the largest and leading series of travel shows in the United States. Obviously, no matter the size of the copany, it's important to be present at travel shows -- and this is the top draw, she point out.

I'll be armed with literature galore, Amish Snickerdoodles (come and find out!), interacting with attendees who come to my booth and meeting with renowned travel celebrities like Pauline Frommer, Cheryl Strayed, author of Wild including offering show packages for all. Plus, plus, plus. Watch for selfies!

I am ready for some insider advice, too, at the several stages spotted around the show featuring some of the top names in the travel industry. I expect to hear about plenty of travel destinations and more efficient ways to plan a perfect vacation or getaway.

THE LITTLE BOX

Small ads do get noticed. They are successful.  


This little box ad runs monthly in the newspaper.  It's a great starting point. Just enough to whet the appetite. Simple. Always in black & white. In the same place. Never waivers.  

I have to admit, who doesn't like consistency. Stability. Dependability. 

15 SAVVY WINTER DRIVING TIPS

Step on Bus Tours mascot Alex scopes out places.

The week of January 5, marks the first full week of back-to-the-way-it-was.  For that many of us are so glad because it restores a sense of normalcy.  But, road conditions are much different than they were last week in 2014. 

Because I spend so much time on the road, I notice a lot of things that most overlook.  As a travel planner and guide, I do my best to anticipate the road ahead, and that is no intended pun. Tips always help make the travel just that much easier. Be prepared. Here are mine. 

1. Windshield wiper washer fluid. It's the most important liquid to have in your car.  Top off the container in the engine.  Then put the bottle in the trunk just in case you need it. There's nothing worse than trying to see through dried dirt and salt on the windshield when the fluid runs out.

2. Head & Brake Lights. Be sure that they work.  I almost got a ticket for a burned out headlight. You need to see what's ahead. And, drivers behind must be able to tell when you are braking. O'Reilly's, Auto Zone and similar auto part places will install them free if you purchase the bulbs at the store. Check out Auto Zone: http://www.autozone.com/

3. Lock Spray. It's winter. Be sure to lubricate the locks of your vehicle. Below freezing temps play a little twist and turn game with the tumblers. 

4. Tire Pressure. This is the kind of weather when the tire pressure must be checked monthly.  Not only for good mileage, but to be able to stop. There are few "full service" stations. A handy tire gauge can solve a problem waiting to happen.

5. Oil. Double check. You know that dark strip that you see in the center of each lane on the roads and highways. It's oil.  Probably yours. Or mine.  I get the oil changed every month or so. It's the one thing you can do to extend the life of your vehicle. 

6. Texting.  Just don't.  Please.  Not only is it against the law, but I am on the road and carry precious cargo. 

7. Traffic Reports. Listen to them so you know road conditions and accident reports. In this weather don't try to make up the time by driving fast. Leave earlier. Or wait 'til summer.

8. Water.  My mascot travels with me frequently.  I have her plastic water container in one of the cup holders of the vehicle.  A few bottles are on the floor of the back seat for me. 

9. Snow brush. Sort of obvious. A credit card works just as well for scrapping the ice off of the windshield, but why not remove snow from the vehicle the easy way? 

10. Towels. I keep two in the car. One to sit on, one in case too much snow settles on the floor of the driver's seat. There's nothing worse than a "goosy" mess. 

11. Glasses. Protect your eyes from damaging rays. And, I still use my yellow tinted glasses for night driving when it is especially dark out.  

12. Snacks. Not just for the dog, but for me, too. Glove box has beef jerky, raisins, peanut butter crackers for "just-in-case." 

13. Useful items. Kitty litter, tow belts, jumper cables and a roll of paper towels are must for the trunk, especially if you travel in a van or pick up truck,which could easily fish tail. 

14. Cell phone charger. Again, it's obvious. 

15. Stadium Seat. Bed, Bath & Beyond carries a variety. Heat it up in the microwave. It's comfy, cozy for any area of the car.  You-know-who loves it. 

The point is to be prepared.  Take your time.  And for those who want to go faster, give 'em a wide berth. Be safe so we can enjoy each other's company down the road! 

12 DAYS OF CHRISTMAS

Christmas wreaths are a Colonial Tradition. 

On Christmas Day, my niece and I were talking about the 12 Days of Christmas as we http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scattergories  
were playing Scattagories, a very cool board game that we both love to play.     Some how she said French Horns when the correct answer was French Hens.  And then the rest of us actually started singing the Olde English carol published as a chant in 1780. 

We don't really celebrate the 12 Days of Christmas, which is really about honoring the Birth of Jesus with a gift a day. Some remove all items related to Christmas on Dec. 26.  Others keep up their trees until March and the end of winter. 

The American colonists brought over the 12 Days celebration and fashioned a wreath filled with nuts, foods, colorful ribbon woven throughout the garland.  And then on Epiphany the "King's Cake" would be eaten.  

Some people still celebrate the 12 Days. Santa Claus and New Year's Eve parties have mainly terminated the Feast. But, the point is that we celebrate the Christmas Season, the birth of the Son, the Light of the Earth. 

Let's keep that light shining in our hearts when we connect with each other in one way or another.  A smile, kind word or handshake sometimes is all it takes. 

Now, who really wants those 12 Lords a Leaping?